I am what I call a “planner”. I have to know what’s going on at all times. If I don’t, I tend to make up my own plans without consulting anyone ahead of time. When those plans don’t happen, I get very emotional and agitated.
Then I become manipulative and depressed. I try to guilt people into going my way. When that doesn’t happen, I pout and get all quiet. I revert to my injured inner child. It’s quite annoying and embarrassing.