I’m single and it’s probably for the best

Came to the conclusion that I am not prepared to be in a relationship with anyone right now.

I feel selfish and guilty about it but this time is for me right now. It’s not fair for me to be involved with someone because I cannot provide them the attention and care they deserve.

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4 thoughts on “I’m single and it’s probably for the best

  1. I have been feeling this way a lot recently. I am now presented with an amazing oportunity to spend time with another individual who is equally as relationship shy albeit for other reasons. I don’t know how to approach this. How do/would you approach this?

    • If you know you wouldn’t be a good partner, maybe you should wait. If you’re truly meant to be with them, they will wait. You have to think of yourself first before you can properly take care of anyone else.

  2. you’re not supposed to enter relationships thinking you need to “take care” of your partner. That’s a parent/child-realtionship and not for grown-ups.
    Just don’t make life so difficult
    and be a nice person to everybody in your life, regardless of wether you sleep with them or not.
    You are in many diffrent relationships already, so you simply need to reevaluate what constitutes “being in a relationship”.

    btw, this is probably not advice for you, but for myself.
    I just read your blog and related it to my own life… so don’t be offended by my tone. I meen no harm.

    peace out//F

    • It’s not so much a “taking care” of issue as it is a “I don’t want to seem selfish and only thinking of my life” issue. I refuse to fake interest in someone else’s life. I would hate it if someone did that to me. I really don’t have any other relationships right now other than my family members and my one friend (he’s the one I was dating). I’m just not in a proper place to be attentive to others and be a caring person.

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